Monday, January 25, 2016

A Meek Week

Goddagens! 

So we went by Dan an investigator we had honestly stopped going by because it was a waste of time and we wasn't willing to give up smoking so we just went by to check on him. He had a definite change of heart and you could see it in his eyes and feel it when he spoke. He talked about his testimony of the church and the Book of Mormon and we set a date with him then and there to be baptized on the 19th of March. We've been meeting with him almost everyday since and he's been going up and down so please please pray for Dan. 

This week was pretty disappointing investigators-wise. One of our main investigators really didn't have that desire to keep his commitments and was just arguing and debating everything we were saying and so we sadly dropped him this past week, still encouraging him to keep reading and praying and coming to church of course. 

The majority of our investigators are just so there right now and it's frustrating because we're trying our best to help them progress and help them feel the Spirit but it really is up to each individual person to accept and act on this message so that is reassuring. 

On a positive note though we have begun working with a less active named Demetri and taught him the Restoration this past week. He had some really good foundational questions about the gospel that we were happy to explain to him and he came to church and the YSA activity after church so we're happy about that! 

We had a worldwide missionary broadcast, first one in something like 12 years, about teaching repentance and baptizing converts. The part of the broadcast that really struck home with me was teaching people, not lessons with Elder Bednar. It's something I so easily forget to do in an effort to get through all the stuff we'd prepared or to keep control of the lesson when it's all about the person being taught, their understanding and their pace while following the guidance of the Spirit. Every person I meet has a background with God whether it's wondering if He exists, deciding He does not exist or seeing Him in a different way, and it's my job to BUILD on that foundation, those personal experiences that are so near and dear to them and help them come closer to our Heavenly Father and His perfect character and perfect love.  That's the beauty of this gospel is we just start where we are, no comparisons to others, no falling behind in the race of life, just start where you are and start now. 

I love all of you and hope something I shared this week will be of benefit to each one of you. 

Äldste Hainsworth



The American section was mediocre at best

Leftovers with the district leader





If we want Authenticity we have to Initiate it

Hey everyone! 

This week Elder Scott and I felt like we needed to raise the bar so we set some ambitious goals and I'm happy to say we were able to achieve a few of them! Definitely didn't achieve all of them and that's the beauty of it, we're going to push even harder this coming week since we know what we're capable of now. 

This week felt like such a blur filled with cancelled lessons, interviews with President, finding people and new investigators. 

We've begun teaching Sebastian and Kade, two college age guys who were referred to us by the Sisters in Lund. We met them, toured around the church, had a good Restoration lesson and gave them Book of Mormons. 

We had a good lesson with another new investigator, she's married to a super solid member with just the most powerful testimony and we were so blessed to share the message of the Restoration with her with her husband right by her side. 

2 Nephi 31: 20. I've been thinking a lot about this scripture and what Neil A. Anderson said "Press forward implies something more than simply going forward. Press implies something is preventing your advancement, and you must push through it. To go forward in this life, you must press temptations aside, press through obstacles, press the doubt and the fear under your feet, and embrace the divine qualities of faith, hope, and love". Pressing forward is the whole purpose of being here on earth, it's how we learn and grow and attain those divine qualities. It's the hardest part of being a missionary for me, staying consistent and always pressing forward, it's so easy to be like a seismograph constantly moving up and down with faith, diligence, motivation and so on. There's a power that I've found in pushing through no matter what, those days you wake up and just say to yourself I don't want to talk to people today or I'm just too frustrated with all my shortcomings, then just throwing back the covers, putting your head down and going to work. Developing a "come what may and love it" attitude doesn't make a difference, it makes ALL the difference. If you haven't seen it I'd recommend watching Bearing our Burdens with Hope: https://www.lds.org/media-library/video/2015-04-001-bearing-our-burdens-with-hope?lang=eng

Hope everyone has a wonderful week!

Love,

Äldste Hainsworth

 Zoey and Maya! 




Chucking snowballs at Elder Nielsen


 Hannah and Leo! 



Monday, January 11, 2016

Acting in all Diligence

Good day y'all! 

This week has been very interesting with plenty of ups and downs to fill ya in on. The assistants extended a challenge to us at the beginning of the week to work to get a baptismal date with someone this week, so Elder Scott and I rolled our sleeves up and got to work. 

On monday we helped Sister Wrang move down to Lund and had dinner with the stake patriarch in the evening so we managed to squeeze emailing in there somewhere and everything else we had to get done. 

Tursday we had a good lesson with Bai and Terry in their chinese shop talking about Lehi's dream. We had a lesson with our investigator Joe with a member present and honestly it was a disaster...We made it halfway through reading 3 Nephi 11 before they just started going at it arguing about the Godhead and faith and the Plan of Salvation and they Spirit was long gone. We tried to butt in but it was hopeless, we eventually just cut, said we had to go, held a prayer and left. I'm so glad I don't have to resort to that as a missionary. Kent an excommunicated member we had a lesson with blåsted on us so we did some contacting and taught a few lessons on the street. 

Wednesday we had a quick visit with Örjan then rushed to the train station to catch a bus to Bishop's house out in the country near Höganäs. Bishop has such a sweet cozy house with lots of natural light looking out over the ocean. I gotta have a room like the Swedes all have, full windows and tons of natural light but still inside and climate controlled and comfy couches and stuff, so nice. We had a super good talk with Bishop about how we can better help the ward and are excited about applying his suggestions. We had a trettondedags jul party with the ward which is pretty much 13 days after christmas you dance around the tree and throw it out (literally) and eat some fika. Joe came so that was good! We called potential investigators at night and set up some good lessons later in the week and next week! 

Thursday we got blåsted by two potential investigators in the afternoon so we did some contacting instead and caught up on the 12 week program. We had the most ridiculous night getting to a member dinner outside of Helsingborg,we took the wrong bus, got off at what we thought was the right bus stop but wasn't, couldn't find her address (obviously) then called the member and as we were talking our phone died! So we finally figured it out after walking around in the cold for a half hour and hopped on another bus and was there an hour and a half late! And she'd invited her friend for us to teach so we felt pretty bad! The dinner went well though and we were able to have a good lesson with her friend Ella who's turning 90 this year and still going strong. We gave her Alma 40 to read and pray about. 

Friday we had a super interesting discussion with Bai and Terry about foods compared between China, America and Australia. America totally wins! But apparently in China at KFC all the guys have black buns like for chicken burgers and all the girls get pink buns, I guess they use food coloring? Sounded interesting though. We had dinner at the Svensson's then straight to innebandy which made for some sucky cardio running around on a very full stomach but still a good time! 

Saturday we prayed and thought a lot about it and decided going to Påarp and our potential investigators was the best way to get a baptismal date. Two of them weren't home and Tommy was heading out to see his daughter so we planned to be in Påarp 3 hours teaching people and were standing there on the street in the freezing cold with 2 hours 45 minutes left. We prayed about it and decided to stick around and tract. The last house we knocked, 5 minutes before our train pulled up, we got something! Dan answered and was interested so we taught him about the Book of Mormon and testified and he accepted a Book of Mormon and said we could come back! We both agreed that was worth missing our train for and having to wait another hour for our next train. We took dinner and ate at the only restaurant in this small little town, Påarp Pizzeria. Now was the time to shine, two potential investigator lessons at night, lets get that dop date! We head off to Mohammed the first lessons and he's a hardcore old muslim from Palestine that just tried to bash on Christianity and convert us. It was a waste of time so we left just to see a text from our next lesson saying he couldn't make it. We're pretty desperate so we call every possible person we could get a baptismal date with but nothing's going through so we end up having to call it a night at 9.

Sunday we had normal church and a member dinner at the Wikströms which left us minimal time to meet with people. We set up a lesson with a positive potential investigator so the plan was to ride back to central station and bus it to her place and commit her to baptism. She blåsted on us on the bus ride to the train station so we were pretty bummed. We were just standing at the bus stop trying to figure out what to do when Zumbulka comes up and asks us if we're with the Mormon church. We get super excited and talk to her, she's met with missionaries before and we're so desperate that we ask her to be baptized. She doesn't say no but she doesn't say yes but she gave us her number and wanted us to come by. We'll take it! 

This week was full of prayers and while we may not have accomplished the challenge, we did our very best and left the rest in the Lord's hands which resulted in a feeling of peace and satisfaction looking back on this week instead of disappointment and regret. 

Mycket kärlek,

Äldste Hainsworth

p.s. It came up a while back that Elder Scott uses shampoo and soap to shower every few weeks, he showers daily, it's just more of a rinse you know. He says it's the way to do it in Australia and better for your hair so I've officially not used shampoo for a week, just a good rinse and my hair is doing great! 

 So blessed to be serving here!
 Father son bonding   (from Sherri (mom):  I reminded Tenny that when he had his pre-mission physical that proteins were found in his urine a few times.  The Dr. traced it back to him taking protein powders before going to the gym.  She told Tenny that taking those was never a good idea & that he should stop. So....I hope these boys are just messing around in a store & didn't bring these huge packages home!)

 We got snow!

Albert our good bird friend was freezing in the snow so we took care of him while tracting in Påarp


 The kind of room I'm talking about

The Wikströms had this at their house to try, it was pretty nasty actually


Sunday, January 10, 2016

Julbord Galore

On monday the 21st of December Victoria was baptized and confirmed a member of the Church! She is someone that both the Landskrona Elders as well as we have been working with and her big day finally arrived. It was a beautiful service where the Spirit was very strong throughout the inspired talks and baptism and confirmation. Her parents were there to support her and she able to be baptized by Casper, her boyfriend and member of the ward. It made me think back on and ponder my own decision to be baptized 11 years ago and where my commitment to follow Jesus Christ has taken me throughout the years. 



I really enjoyed my first Christmas as a missionary, it was different but very special. The festivities started on the 24th at the Malmstens in Landskrona where we watched Big Hero 6 and had a good time getting to know the Malmstens better. We rushed from the Malmstens to make it to the Ocasio's to make it just in time for the traditional Kalle Anka (Donald Duck) at 3 pm every Christmas Eve. Many members were there at the Ocasio's, the night included a traditional Swedish Julbord followed by a visit from Jultomten to deliver presents then games, reading Luke 2 and singing Christmas carols together. The highlight of the holidays was the next morning skyping the family in India. I forget pretty easily that live continues full speed back home so the time flew right by as we caught up and shared some memories together. It was a flood of emotions but most of them good, it reminds you and fills you with a love for you family and love for God. Christmas was spent with the Wagners watching Monsters University and Surfs Up and playing games and talking and relaxing as well as another Julbord. All in all we had four Julbord dinners four days in a row, we were ready to eat something else! 

New years eve was equally enjoyable, it was a night of good food, fun games, and amazing people. The fireworks were going off all over the city and you could see them across the ocean in Denmark too, what a cool experience. 

We've begun teaching a new investigator Joe, he is from Vietnam but has lived in Sweden most of his life. He has many thought provoking questions and interesting theories. 

Elder Scott and I are doing better than ever, we both are loving this area and loving the work and the people, it's nowhere near easy but it's worth it. 

I love my family and friends and am so thankful for each and every one of you. 

Äldste Hainsworth


  Some super legit phone gloves the Landskrona Elders bought


What happens when you put frosting on brownies fresh out of the oven and then rush to the train station



Julbord

Christmas morning was a ghost town

 Super sweet little Christmas arrangement

Thanks so much to my ward and especially my mom for the package, you're the best!!
 (From Sherri:  The fabric tree that I made for Tenny in Oct. & mailed off on Oct. 30th, so he'd for sure have it by Dec. 1st was mailed back to me along with 3 of the other 4 packages I sent to Sweden for Christmas.  The only one that didn't come back was one for a random Elder that wouldn't be getting much from home. The one for the random Sister (girl) missionary was one of the ones sent back.  This time I waited until I had Tenny's direct address from him before paying again to send it. Because I had to put it in a different box & could send it straight to him, I added some stuff which put the price up to $65 for sending it the 2nd time.  $41 was the 1st time.  Very expensive chocolate chips, cookies, $1 box of Kraft mac n cheese, popcorn, etc.  But so worth it for Tenny to finally get a package  even if it was after Christmas.  His main Christmas package was returned to us while we were in India. As was a package that I'd sent one of his cousins in the States.  It came back saying I owed $14.27 which is exactly what I paid when I mailed it before Thanksgiving.  I'm beyond frustrated with the post system right now!  And computers that glitch addresses causing them to print the wrong one & ruining so much effort, time, money & hopes for a Happy Christmas for a son that's away from home at Christmas for the first time in his young life. Tenny had a way better attitude about it all than I did.)


 With Jultomten!

Makin some German pancakes with my man Äldste Mason
 Playin some Settlers






Star Wars Movie Review (just kidding)

Hey all! 

This email will be a bit shorter cause we only have p-day till 12 today with the weird Christmas schedule this week! I'm excited for Christmas though and being able to skype the fam. 

So a little update with Dan, we got a call from him during the week and said he read something that shook his faith in the Church and essentially doesn't believe in it and is giving up on the Word of Wisdom. But then he texted us saying he would come to sacrament meeting still. Then he didn't. So he has essentially dropped us, very sad but people have their agency and we left him with a good taste in his mouth!

It's been super good with Elder Scott meeting investigators and members cause he was a big gamer and tons of people we meet with are big gamers so he connects with them over that and I end up just standing there while everything goes over my head. It's good though! 

We contacted a guy with a scary face tattoo named Martin and he ended up watching the Christmas video and accepting a Book of Mormon and is down to meet sometime, that was awesome! 

We had a great lesson with Fei with a member present so they spoke lots of Chinese to eachother in front of us (probably about us). We met at a cafe and talked over some hot chocolate and she's a really awesome candidate for baptism but she left for China for a month yesterday so we'll see when she gets back! 

Elder Scott and I have both been trying to get over colds this week but we're pretty much better now, he's been a trooper about it! We had an amazing Christmas conference on friday in Göteborg and it was super fun. We talked a lot about the Christ like attributes of humility, obedience, charity and faith. We also did a white elephant, I got a Lord of the Rings board game, score! 

We went back out to Påarp and met with Tommy and he's doing well! Emma hasn't been home the last couple times we've gone by but her parents always answer, oh well we'll keep trying! 

I've been studying Moroni 7:45 this week and trying to focus on showing love in word and deed to everyone I meet, it not only lifts others around you but it does so much for myself personally too! Having charity will always make us happier, that's how it works. Charity never faileth!

Glad jul och nytt år allihopa! 

Äldste Hainsworth

(While we (Tenny's family) was in India for 2 weeks, we got to Skype with Tenny on Christmas for an hour!  It was crazy wonderful!  He sent this brief email the next day. 

Hey we didn't have time to email today but Christmas was great as well as skyping y'all, our next p-day will be next friday so I'll catch up on everything then! Love you and have fun in India!

 Sleeping in the old Kungsbacka bachelor pad! 


President and Sister Beckstrand hooking it up! 

Selfie with my man Azat 


 The Helsingborg train station



Helsingborg lit up

 Wienerbröd and Julmust change the game